Happy Birthday to My Hero!
Our Dhamma talk yesterday in Meditation Class April 10th centered on a case that recently happen to a virtuous peace leader.
April 7
Dharma –
There will always be obstacles in life
This past
Sunday (April 7) at Alms Offering Service, for the Dhamma portion, Venerable Na
Long spoke about a lady at our center who has been coming to the center every
day, and has never missed Alms Offering. However today, her seat is empty. The
Venerable went on speaking about this lady’s situation and the wisdom that we
can gain. The Venerable stated that there will be challenges and obstacles in
life, but we must always stay the course and use the accumulation of merit as
your refuge.
- I was asked by a lay devotee to write about this ladies incident since there is wisdom that one can learn from her situation.
- I will share this story with you now
There is a
member at the temple that started coming since the inception of the Georgia
Meditation Center in 1998. She never missed an Alms Offering Service held every
Sunday and always is in attendance for all ceremonies. She is very involved at
the center always helping to motivate others to accumulate good deeds, and has
introduced many to join the center and attend service. She conducts her life
accordingly to the teaching of the center with daily practice of meditation,
upholding the 5 precepts, and acts of generosity. She truly is an inspiration
for others and is a true virtuous peace leader. She has proven time and time
again, by her actions and service to the center how dedicated and genuine she
really is.
Recently, an
unfortunate situation occurred, a situation that is very scary. Her house was
broken into, two men, who had their face covered, both carrying a gun, barged
through the front door of her home. They kicked the door down, and within
minutes they were inside the house. Her son was in the living room, next to the
front door, being broken into. When he saw the robbers, he got up, only to get
hit on the head with the gun. He fell on the ground, and blanked out for a few
seconds. His mother, the dedicated lay women at our center, saw her son getting
attacked. All she could think about was her son getting hurt, and how she had
to protect him. She saw the two robbers come in with the gun and was afraid
that they would hurt her son even more, she ran towards them trying to chase
them out of the house. The robbers, evil minded individuals, started to beat
her up with their guns. Blood splashing on the walls, and over the floor, the
lady screaming profusely. While all this is happening her son, quickly gets up
and runs towards the door. As he is making his way to the door he slips, he
struggles to run, he hears a click and realizes that either he will make it out
the door or he will be dead. He fights to makes it out. The robbers are scared
and they panic. They realize he is going to get help, the robbers quickly leave
the house. Soon I get a call, that my mother is in the hospital, that my mom’s
house has been robbed, and that my mother’s face is battered. I totally freak
out and am doing my best to hold myself together. I have never been involved in
anything like this in my life. All I could wish for is merit not to fail my
family now, wishing that for any situation that might be heavy to be light
instead, and for my mom to ultimately be fine. I am so relieved to say my mother
will be fine, and her scars will heal. My mother has proven that she is not
only a warrior with the ultimate love for her child, but she is also a soldier
of goodness. She is my hero, and my captain, who has guided me to be who I am
today, a lover of doing good for the world, a soldier for peace.
After this
incident, the very next day (4/6) my mother asked for us to go to the temple to
accumulate more good deeds for our family. She reminded us (myself and my
brothers) that when it comes to relaying on anything we must rely on our good
deeds to get us through, and that she knows she is protected, because of all
the good she has done thus far. Always making a wish that her children are
protected and safe. Even the day she was getting hit all she could think of was
for them not to hurt her son, but to hurt her instead. For my family, though
this unfortunate incident has occurred, we look at it with a positive mind that
nothing life threatening happen to mom and that she will be ok, but more
importantly what we found out later was a shocker. When Timmy, my youngest
brother slipped, the robber cocked his gun to fire at him, the bullet fell to
the ground. Turns out the robber already had a bullet in the chamber, but
didn’t know it, so when he cocked his gun, the bullet fell out of the chamber,
thus when he tried to shoot my little brother, he wasn’t able to. We are truly
blessed. I can’t help but feel that her wishes for her children to be safe and
protected are powerful wishes that came true. My mother is a great example of
perseverance of accumulating good deeds and believing in merit no matter what.
That though such challenges come in our life we will not back down, and wonder
why our goodness did not protect us. When it comes to Karma we just never know
what consequence will bear its fruit, all we can wish for, if unfortunate
situations are to occur due to remnants of Karma, let them be light, not heavy
circumstances. We have confident and faith in the good deeds that we accumulate
and our goodness and virtues will always protect us. And even if it doesn’t, we
will realize that sometimes some things are just meant to be and we have no
control. And that my friends is Karma. Believe in Merit, Believe in doing good
and recall on them to protect you.
Today is my
mother’s birthday and to celebrate her birthday she made an offering to the
Venerable. I wanted to share her story with you in hopes that it may help
inspire you to accumulate good deeds for yourself by meditating, upholding
precepts, and acts of generosity, her story is one that we can learn something
from. Those of you who know my mom, know how dedicated she is in accumulating good
deeds. Instead of buying her a present,
she asked each of her children (me, Nat, and Timmy) to share in making a
birthday offering with her, she wanted no material object, but rather wanted to
make merit. Since monks meditate 4-6 hours a day, and uphold 227 precepts, for
us, we believe they are our fertile fields of merit. Thus, just like a seed
that is to be planted, we should be selective with the type of soil we plant
the seed in, the more fertile the soil the better the yield. Likewise, the more
purified a person is, an act of good deed towards that person, accumulates a
high return of merit accordingly. Merit
and Demerit are behind all things, accumulate only good deeds, and protect
yourself. Believe in merit. It is real!
*Please note I read aloud what I had written for my mother on her birthday (yesterday). She was very touched by this story and felt that if her story could be an inspiration for others to accumulate good deeds she wants me to share it with as many people as possible. I hope she can be an inspiration for you, she is definitely an inspiration for me. At the end of our meditation class yesterday, our Venerable Na Long reminded us how important it is for us to have gratitude for our parents, love and take-care of them. That many parents, love their children to put-their-life-on-the-line.
A photo of my family performing merit offering together:














